The New Site!!!!

Hi Readers,


The day has come to move to the new site. I will leave this site up, but you can now find us at www.darealtalk.com. Hopefully I will see you there!!!


And As Always Much Love,


MzGaPeachy

A Thank You to the Readers!!!!!

I really want to thank each of you who have showed my blog love. I reached of above and beyond my goal of what I wanted to reach in monthly views.  Monday the 8^th will be a month since my first post. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. This is coming from Tesha personally and not my MzGaPeachy persona. Once again thanks for the support much love to each of you.

Tesha

"Taboo in the Bedroom" (email answer)

This is going to be quick post. I received an email wanting my opinion about what is taboo in the bedroom for sex between a husband and wife. Well, first let me thank you for asking the question? I don't make it a habit to answer an email in a blog post, because I like to answer questions back through emails, since every one's individual situations varies. However, there are occasions where I will answer emails to general questions like this one, in the blog, if I feel it may help others.

Now to answer your questions the only thing I see as taboo in a husband and wife's sex life is putting another person in the mix. If that offended anyone, I am sorry but that is my belief, so do with it what you please. People don't change their beliefs for me and I don't change mine for others. #IJS Plus adding another person can cause a whole other set of complications. Now as far as everything else goes, what goes on behind close doors between two spouses is there business. God created sexual feelings not only for procreation, but for husbands and wives to enjoy each other. I feel as long as both of you are comfortable with it, then do what you do. Hey don't be afraid to experiment with somethings either, because you never know what you might enjoy. #IJS

"Get Fairytale Perfect Out Your Mind" (VB-1)

Okay as I said yesterday on Da Real Talk facebook page, I want to give thanks to my beautiful niece Miss Angel Davenportfor this one (check her out here http://www.missangeld.blogspot.com). I never thought I would do this but she inspired me. Thanks again and LOVE YA MUCH!!!!

Now today's topic is fairytale perfect relationships. All I am going to say is not happening, the perfect relationships only comes from those imperfect relationships that we strive to make great, but never fairytale perfection. You will never have a relationship where you and mate don't disagree at some point or another. In order to find out exactly what I had to say about this, watch my first video blog.

Please email me or comment to let me know if you want me to add video blogging to the mix. It won't be all the time, but I will add it to the mix of things I do on the blog. So let me know what you think. TTYL

"Updates for The Weekend"

Hi Readers,

Tonight I am trying something a little different for the blog post. I am very excited to see how it works out. The blog drops @6pm EST so stop by and check it out!!! We are also on the count down for the launch of the new site, so that means I am still looking for guest bloggers. I know there are some of you who want too do it and have a lot to say, but are shy. Don't be!!! Come on and share with us!!!  To find out more on how to be a guest blogger, stop by and like our Facebook page and you will find details there. As far as "The Love Cray-zee Chronicles" go Chapter 7 will not be released until the launch of the new site. I am so sorry to disappoint there, but remember good things come to those who wait!! I will have another "I'm Just Saying" posted before the weekend is over so stay tuned for that. Blessed and Happy Friday Everyone!!! As Always Much Love, MzGaPeachy

Action vs. Words

MzGaPeachy

It feels good when the love of your life not only speaks love but shows you through thier actions. People can say a lot of things, but if your actions don't equal what is coming out of your mouth then the words are useless. I am asking a question. Are your actions greater than, equal to, or less than the words you speak? If you don't know the answer to question then you need to check and see if your mate is looking at you cross-eyed. If they are then you know the answer is probably less than, that means you need to re-evaluted yourself and fix it. Now if you are in relationship and your mate's actions are less then the words that are coming out thier mouths, then you better make sure that is where you want to be. Nine times out of ten their actions are showing you exactly who they are.

Guest Blogging

If you like Da Real Talk blog and would be interested in being featured as a guest blogger here is your chance. To find out more information, please go and like Da Real Talk FB page and follow instructions from todays post. http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/pages/Da-Real-Talk/238576282832891
As Always Much Love, MzGaPeachy

"I'M JUST SAYING!!!3" (To the Men)

MzGaPeachy

This is another one of those “I’m Just Saying” moments. And ladies this one is aimed toward the men.  Through a conversation I had this morning the realization was that most women cheat, because of lack of attention from their man. It’s not the only reason, but it ranks number one in my book. Men and don’t act like you don’t know your woman needs attention. She has desired your attention from day one. Really think about it, when she first gave you the time of day it was because you paid her some attention right? Do you really think that you are supposed to stop just because you got her?  If that is your logic, then you are sadly mistaken. You don’t want her to stop doing all the things she use to do when you first got together, so don’t do it to her.  Or in the end you might find yourself looking stupid, because she has moved on to the next man who is willing to give it to her. So my advice is every now and then, that attention that you are giving to that TV remote, that game controller, your boyz, computer, etc., learn to give her some of it.  I am not saying give up who you are and the things you love to do.  All I am saying is don’t become so consumed with those things or become so complacent in your relationship that you lose focus on your relationship with your woman. “I’m Just Saying!!!” Think about it……You don't have to agree with me, but thinkabout it.

"Don't Hate It!!! Learn to Enjoy It!!! SEX"

Okay Ladies,

I over heard a conversation from a couple of women that really caught my attention. No, I was not being nosey they were just talking out loud, LMBO. One was talking about feeling self conscience about sex with her husband. From what I gathered, it had nothing to do with her husband but her upbringing. Basically it seems as if she was taught sex was for keeping the hubby happy and making babies.Well ladies, do you want to know what I think about that. I think it is "NONSENSE". Sex needs to be enjoyed by the woman as well as a man. She shouldn't feel conformed to some prehistoric caveman notion about sex. Women have just as much right to be freaky and enjoy sex as much as their husbands. And if she is not allowing herself to enjoy sex to the fullest she is missing a real treat. Mrs. C had said in one of her post that sex was a stress reducer, but that only works if the woman is enjoying sex. Good sex should have you smiling and glowing afterwards. Your husband should be willing to please you as much as much as he wants to be pleased. Now the truth is most (not all) men aim to please. Women you have to allow him too please you and let go of your inhibitions. If he don't know what you like, I can't stress this enough "Tell Him!!!" If he truly loves you, he will listen. Sex is not something for you to think of as gross, nasty, and appalling. Please, if that is your mind let it go, because if you don't you are going to continue to miss out one of this best things you could experience, in life.