"I'M JUST SAYING!!!3" (To the Men)

MzGaPeachy

This is another one of those “I’m Just Saying” moments. And ladies this one is aimed toward the men.  Through a conversation I had this morning the realization was that most women cheat, because of lack of attention from their man. It’s not the only reason, but it ranks number one in my book. Men and don’t act like you don’t know your woman needs attention. She has desired your attention from day one. Really think about it, when she first gave you the time of day it was because you paid her some attention right? Do you really think that you are supposed to stop just because you got her?  If that is your logic, then you are sadly mistaken. You don’t want her to stop doing all the things she use to do when you first got together, so don’t do it to her.  Or in the end you might find yourself looking stupid, because she has moved on to the next man who is willing to give it to her. So my advice is every now and then, that attention that you are giving to that TV remote, that game controller, your boyz, computer, etc., learn to give her some of it.  I am not saying give up who you are and the things you love to do.  All I am saying is don’t become so consumed with those things or become so complacent in your relationship that you lose focus on your relationship with your woman. “I’m Just Saying!!!” Think about it……You don't have to agree with me, but thinkabout it.

"Don't Hate It!!! Learn to Enjoy It!!! SEX"

Okay Ladies,

I over heard a conversation from a couple of women that really caught my attention. No, I was not being nosey they were just talking out loud, LMBO. One was talking about feeling self conscience about sex with her husband. From what I gathered, it had nothing to do with her husband but her upbringing. Basically it seems as if she was taught sex was for keeping the hubby happy and making babies.Well ladies, do you want to know what I think about that. I think it is "NONSENSE". Sex needs to be enjoyed by the woman as well as a man. She shouldn't feel conformed to some prehistoric caveman notion about sex. Women have just as much right to be freaky and enjoy sex as much as their husbands. And if she is not allowing herself to enjoy sex to the fullest she is missing a real treat. Mrs. C had said in one of her post that sex was a stress reducer, but that only works if the woman is enjoying sex. Good sex should have you smiling and glowing afterwards. Your husband should be willing to please you as much as much as he wants to be pleased. Now the truth is most (not all) men aim to please. Women you have to allow him too please you and let go of your inhibitions. If he don't know what you like, I can't stress this enough "Tell Him!!!" If he truly loves you, he will listen. Sex is not something for you to think of as gross, nasty, and appalling. Please, if that is your mind let it go, because if you don't you are going to continue to miss out one of this best things you could experience, in life.

"I'M JUST SAYING!!!2"

My hubby played Keith Sweat today on the way back from Atlanta. Now I guess you are probably saying to yourself “So what!!!” Well for me it’s a personal connection from my past with my hubby. We use to listen to him all the time when we first got together. LOL, when I was listening and watching him, while he was driving, it just brought all those old feelings and heart flutters, I use to get every time I seen his handsome face walk through the door while we were dating. Please don’t get it twisted, I still get sparks when I see him now, but it is something about the sparks you get when you first date someone. I guess what I am trying to say is if you need a relationship boost or need to just feel a spark, bring back something, from the past when you two first got together. Sounds and smells are good memory stimulators and sometimes stimulators need to be used, to help keep the magic alive. I’m just saying!!!!