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Monday, August 15, 2011

The New Site!!!!

Hi Readers,


The day has come to move to the new site. I will leave this site up, but you can now find us at www.darealtalk.com. Hopefully I will see you there!!!


And As Always Much Love,


MzGaPeachy

Saturday, August 6, 2011

A Thank You to the Readers!!!!!

I really want to thank each of you who have showed my blog love. I reached of above and beyond my goal of what I wanted to reach in monthly views.  Monday the 8th will be a month since my first post. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. This is coming from Tesha personally and not my MzGaPeachy persona. Once again thanks for the support much love to each of you.
Tesha

"Taboo in the Bedroom" (email answer)

This is going to be quick post. I received an email wanting my opinion about what is taboo in the bedroom for sex between a husband and wife. Well, first let me thank you for asking the question? I don't make it a habit to answer an email in a blog post, because I like to answer questions back through emails, since every one's individual situations varies. However, there are occasions where I will answer emails to general questions like this one, in the blog, if I feel it may help others.

Now to answer your questions the only thing I see as taboo in a husband and wife's sex life is putting another person in the mix. If that offended anyone, I am sorry but that is my belief, so do with it what you please. People don't change their beliefs for me and I don't change mine for others. #IJS Plus adding another person can cause a whole other set of complications. Now as far as everything else goes, what goes on behind close doors between two spouses is there business. God created sexual feelings not only for procreation, but for husbands and wives to enjoy each other. I feel as long as both of you are comfortable with it, then do what you do. Hey don't be afraid to experiment with somethings either, because you never know what you might enjoy. #IJS

Friday, August 5, 2011

"Get Fairytale Perfect Out Your Mind" (VB-1)

Okay as I said yesterday on Da Real Talk facebook page, I want to give thanks to my beautiful niece Miss Angel Davenportfor this one (check her out here http://www.missangeld.blogspot.com). I never thought I would do this but she inspired me. Thanks again and LOVE YA MUCH!!!!

Now today's topic is fairytale perfect relationships. All I am going to say is not happening, the perfect relationships only comes from those imperfect relationships that we strive to make great, but never fairytale perfection. You will never have a relationship where you and mate don't disagree at some point or another. In order to find out exactly what I had to say about this, watch my first video blog.


Please email me or comment to let me know if you want me to add video blogging to the mix. It won't be all the time, but I will add it to the mix of things I do on the blog. So let me know what you think. TTYL

"Updates for The Weekend"

Hi Readers,

Tonight I am trying something a little different for the blog post. I am very excited to see how it works out. The blog drops @6pm EST so stop by and check it out!!! We are also on the count down for the launch of the new site, so that means I am still looking for guest bloggers. I know there are some of you who want too do it and have a lot to say, but are shy. Don't be!!! Come on and share with us!!!  To find out more on how to be a guest blogger, stop by and like our Facebook page and you will find details there. As far as "The Love Cray-zee Chronicles" go Chapter 7 will not be released until the launch of the new site. I am so sorry to disappoint there, but remember good things come to those who wait!! I will have another "I'm Just Saying" posted before the weekend is over so stay tuned for that. Blessed and Happy Friday Everyone!!! As Always Much Love, MzGaPeachy

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Action vs. Words

MzGaPeachy
It feels good when the love of your life not only speaks love but shows you through thier actions. People can say a lot of things, but if your actions don't equal what is coming out of your mouth then the words are useless. I am asking a question. Are your actions greater than, equal to, or less than the words you speak? If you don't know the answer to question then you need to check and see if your mate is looking at you cross-eyed. If they are then you know the answer is probably less than, that means you need to re-evaluted yourself and fix it. Now if you are in relationship and your mate's actions are less then the words that are coming out thier mouths, then you better make sure that is where you want to be. Nine times out of ten their actions are showing you exactly who they are.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Chapter 6 of "The Love Cray-zee Chronicles"

It was now Wednesday. The first part of the week was over, and still had the rest of the week to go. This upcoming weekend I was just going to chill at home, because I was exhausted. Camille and I had spent the entire previous weekend hanging together, after that little shopping spree we had. Needless to say I came home with more than the bikinis. I ended up with an entire wardrobe for this trip. I knew better before I had even gone shopping with Camille. It didn’t hit me until I took another look at that sales receipt, for those fuchsia Manolos I had brought. I wasn’t worried though, I worked hard on my job, and I deserved to splurge every now and then.
I had tried to call Jay several times, but he wasn’t answering his home phone, cell phone, or accepting any non-business calls at the office. I didn’t even bother to go by and check on him, because if he really needed to reach out to me, he knew how to find me.
However, I was just about to walk out the office, when I was bumped into by a gorgeous Shemar Moore, look alike. I thought I was dreaming, when I looked up into those sexy eyes of his.
“Excuse me miss, you wouldn’t happened to be Dr. Latoya Banks would you,” he asked with a sexy smile.
“Yes, yes I am,” trying to gain my composure, but still mesmerized by his good looks.
“Well Dr. Banks, I am Marcus Stephenson.  A friend of mine recommended that I come see you, about a little situation of mine. However, what this friend failed to mention was how gorgeous you are,” he said given me a second look over.
“Okay, Mr. Stephenson, before this conversation goes any farther, may I ask if you are here for therapy, because if you are I don’t need you throwing any more compliments my way.”
“No, no, nothing like that,” he said smiling and letting out a small laugh, “actually, I am here because I am writing a book about a psychologist who was stalked and murdered by a patient, who was in love with her. I wanted to do some research on the life of a psychologist, and so I figured I had better talk to an actual psychologist.”
“So you sought me out, over all the other psychologist in the Atlanta area?”
“Well like I told you before I was recommended by a friend. He had seen a write up about you and your new book, in the Atlanta Journal Constitution and thought you would be a good candidate. Well from the looks of things I will say he was right ,” he said with a little grin.
“May I ask who your friend is?” 
“No one you would probably know anyway. He is just an old college buddy, trying to help me out, since I am new to the Atlanta area. He didn’t know any psychologist first hand, but he had remembered reading an article about you, so he told me to look you up.”
“I see. Well in that case I may need to let you know I am about to go on vacation, so I may not be of much help, unless you can get what you need from me in the next two weeks.”
“I think I can get all the information I need in two weeks, if you would agree to have dinner with me several times, over the next couple of weeks. Strictly business though,” Marcus said with a little sexy smirky smile, on his face.
“I can’t promise you anything, because  I am a very busy woman,” I said lying to myself and him. I am never busy at night, unless I am having to deal with Jay and Camille drama. My nights consisted of take- out and HSN.
“Well, I guess if I can’t get you to have dinner with me then I am just going to have to work towards taking you out for lunch, because everyone has to stop and take a lunch break,” he said really not taking no for  an answer.
“Okay Mr. Stephenson I can do lunch with you on Friday, if that is okay with you,” I asked getting all excited like some young school girl as I gave him another look over.
“Great, so I’ll be he around noon,” he said not saying another word, but just turning around and exiting just as quickly as he appeared.