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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

"Balancing Act"

Mrs. C
Today many times we find ourselves on overkill or overload. Women we take on many tasks in providing for the needs of our husband and family, not to mention our own personal needs. Men you work, work, and work hard in providing for your family, growing tired in the process. You both need to STOP, don’t lose yourselves outside of home it is very essential to balance work, home, and personal life to prevent losing yourselves and what you are working for together. Because you are on overkill, or overload it sometimes makes it very difficult to deal with certain situations that may come about in the relationship. “STOP” right where you are, sit down and just breathe. Pray and ask God to help you, because he is right there waiting. Conduct a family meeting to talk and establish some ground rules, allowing everyone to share. Remember to remain open for suggestions. You and your mate are one, and to make things balance and flow smoothly it will take everyone, including the children taking on tasks and instructions.

Now, as a couple set aside that time, for the two of you. If you do not see the time, make some time for the other. Dig deep and think of the good that attracted you to one another. “DATE” whether it may be in the bedroom, the movies or out for dinner alone, as long as it is away from overkill and stress. The best release is to engage in a spontaneous evening of romance and sex. Sex is the best way to de-stress your mind and body suggested by doctors and professionals, as well as it honoring your union as one.

Superwoman you cannot do it on your own. Let your Superman help you! Remember to show gratitude and kindness, while loving one another alone the way. Superman take charge, be loving, and affectionate sweep her off her feet! If you cannot see eye to eye, leave self out of it.  If this does not work, STOP, Pray, Press, and Stand Strong relying on Gods words. His word is your blueprint and instructions. Don’t groan or complain find a scripture and meditate on it. Plant the word into your spirit praying for balance and peace.

Eph 5:31 And the two shall become one.
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3 comments:

  1. AnonymousJuly 19, 2011 at 11:10 PM

    Prayer is the first thing we should do, asking God to forgive us for all of our SIN and to protect us, both Male and Female should be Strong. Working on their relationship and putting no one but God first.
    Service your mate both in the bedroom and outside of the bedroom don't be afraid to keep the spice up in the bedroom, what you did to get that person is the same thing you have to do to keep them.

    Mr. C. ButtaB

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  2. AnonymousJuly 20, 2011 at 12:22 AM

    Yes, having God in your life makes a big difference in how you look at the world and the people around you. He enables us to be more patient, understanding, loving, and be more compassionate.

    Never take advantage of what you got going on in your life because if you lose it you might not win them back again. Show you care about your significant other even if it’s just a hug, a kiss, and most importantly tell them that you love them every chance you have.

    the mediator

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  3. AnonymousJuly 20, 2011 at 8:28 AM

    Dear, Mediator and Mr. C. ButtaB,
    You both made some excellent points. Thank you, for you support and sharing.

    I agree, continue to spice up romance in life with your spouse. A kind word as simple as, "I Love You" is significant and holds strong.

    Mrs. C.

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