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| Mrs. C |
Hello Everyone,
My name is Mrs. C and I was asked by my girl MzGaPeachy to drop the 411 on communcation. I did just that. I pray it will make a difference in someones life, so enjoy the read below!
Sincerely,
Mrs. C
Improving your relationship with your mate can make dramatic changes in a relationship. Many times in a relationship couples fall into a pattern of putting your feeling and emotions in a box instead of dealing with certain situations and conflicts that may arrive. While dating we find it easy hold hands, hug, and talk things out and be there for one another. Communication is an essential part of a relationship here are some keys that can possibly improve keeping the door of communication open.
1. Never take for granted that your significant other can read your mind. If there is something that is on your mind take the time talk. Believe me timing is everything pick the proper time to talk. Ladies don’t wait until the middle of the football game. Men be welling listen and listen attentively to what is important her. If needed set a time aside to discuss and share this can be a time when you and your mate can cuddle, and romance if there is nothing to discuss.
2. Be thoughtful not selfish and self centered. Remember to be mindful of the others feeling not getting caught up in the me, mine, and I syndrome. It takes two to share and we have to remember that it is not fun to be in a relationship alone.
3. Establish a date night keep love alive do not be afraid to share and explore together. We all lead busy lives it is easy to lose self and self worth in stuff and the world. Stop, breath, relax, and touch. A peck on the cheek or something as simple as a text to say, “I love you,” or “I am thinking of you.” Indicates and express you care and can be quite meaningful. Your date night should be a time to share and enjoy one another all about the two of you nothing or no one else matters during this time. Communicate by showing affection.
Remember within the human live is a cycle and we are constantly changing and so does relationships cycle. No matter where you are within this cycle remain focus and remain open to the other do not close yourself off allowing yourself to enter into the box. When two people feel the desire to love and be love the way that God communicates love openly sharing and moving forward becomes an easy.
I enjoyed that very much! Time and time again us women are in need of attention and we often find the wrong times to communicate with our significant other. Those were great tips on how to keep ur relationship your own, because when communication is on point between the two of you--no drama can arise from the outside in. IM JUS SAYIN!!! lol -Bless
ReplyDeleteThank you, for responding and sharing.
ReplyDeleteI look forward to hearing from you and others.
Just keep in mind that as long as you and your mate are working together all things are possible.
Sincerely,
Mrs. C
There are all very important key in communication and i exercise it with my husband. Another thing to know when you and your mate are having an disagreement, it is always better to get some air and cool down first and think things thru than just try to solve the problem in the heat of the moment. Which if not carefull can put ur relationship in more strain because when you are angry things can be said that shouldnt be said and you could never take back again.
ReplyDeletesincerely,
the mediator
To The Mediator,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your feedback. You provided an excellent point. I agree with you that you have to have a calming period and a clear head in ordet to produces a better conversation. Once again Thank you and May God Bless.
Mrs. C